how do you define a jump-off?

Do guys and girls have different definitions? Have you ever fallen into jump-off status and didn’t even realize it? Can an ex or friend with benefits be classified as a jump-off? Is anyone willing to admit that they’re a jump-off and proud of it? Are there benefits to being a J.O.? Has any females ever flipped the script and made a guy their jump-off? Whose decision is that? Can a jump-off ever be about more than just sex? This is what I think !!!! Just because two consenting adults have sex with no commitment doesn’t mean you’re J.O. status. That just means you had sex. Point blank. Now if that’s all you ever do and you never go out, don’t have actual conversations (sex talk don’t count), and only communicate in the wee hours of the night then you might be a jump-off.

To me...A Jump Off , Bust down, HOE..LOL...whatever you wanna call it....is a girl who for one...has no respect for herself...just carelessly runs around sleepin with guys, which obviously...have no respect for her either...Everyone knows about this girl, and they know she’s easy, they know they can easily smash...man...i could go on forever, my old roomate was a Jump off...she messed around with like 25+ guys within the 8 months we lived together....most of the time unprotected, had atleast 3 abortions, just that i know of...and even messed around with 3 diff guys within hours of each other, and then tried to fuck her man later that night.....meanwhile these guys didnt give a damn about her, and everyone just talked about her behind her back cuz everyone knows shes nasty....and still is!

To answer your other questions...NO, i will never stoop that low, i have the utmost amount of respect for myself, and i refuse to lower my standards and have random meanlingless sex with Anyone...i like my numbers low...thank you!! LOL and i also wouldnt allow myself to be just some object to someone who doesnt give a damn about me...are there benifits??? in my opinion...NO not unless you like catchin diseases and making yourself look bad.....

My definition of a "jump off" or whatever would be the equivalant to the gold-digger and or whore. When I think of a jump-off I think of someone just having hella sex with everybody for some type of material things (ie: money), but she doesn't necessarily have to be doing it for that reason, it could just be for her enjoyment. I know we all know plenty of those.

I think a jump-off is strickly a sexual relationship nothing more. They just basically fk, cant even call it sex, they fk and then its like nothing ever happen, both carry on about their lives. The two engaging in this act really only briefly talk when they are making plans to meet up usually during what I call booty call hours (After like 10:30pm and later)

I have never been a JO, I have respect for myself and my body. These are way too many diseases to be caught. I love my life far too much, I'd rather pleasure myself, then to stoop that low. Futhermore I have attachment issues, so I can't have casual sex anyways.

Jump-Off?!? We call'em bust downs or runna's over south in chicago..lol. What makes them so different from swingers, or porno stars?

Jurmz wrote:Jump-Off?!? We call'em bust downs or runna's over south in chicago..lol. What makes them so different from swingers, or porno stars?

It's all the same shit, whore fking without a care in the world.

LOL....seriously!

btnhmami9803 wrote:

Jurmz wrote:Jump-Off?!? We call'em bust downs or runna's over south in chicago..lol. What makes them so different from swingers, or porno stars?

It's all the same shit, whore fking without a care in the world.

I agree to a certain extent, but who are we to judge them. Swinging is practiced commonly among some of the wealthy. Some men and women just enjoy sex. I once had a serious convo with a "bustdown". I asked her why she was like that...she said, they use condoms so Im safe. I just enjoy sex. Sex was originally used for reproduction, but someone decided to pull out and thats how we know sex as it is today...lol. Personally I find the whole thing amusing. I dont touch'em, I enjoy watching them when I go to the sites, but thats as far as it goes. My woman is my everything....esp when role playing..woot...Im done...

LOL...wow...btw hes from chicago too.....Im used to hearin bust down too though...

The new phrase we say now is.. "Is she going" lmao

Jurmz wrote:

btnhmami9803 wrote:

Jurmz wrote:Jump-Off?!? We call'em bust downs or runna's over south in chicago..lol. What makes them so different from swingers, or porno stars?

It's all the same shit, whore fking without a care in the world.

I agree to a certain extent, but who are we to judge them. Swinging is practiced commonly among some of the wealthy. Some men and women just enjoy sex. I once had a serious convo with a "bustdown". I asked her why she was like that...she said, they use condoms so Im safe. I just enjoy sex. Sex was originally used for reproduction, but someone decided to pull out and thats how we know sex as it is today...lol. Personally I find the whole thing amusing. I dont touch'em, I enjoy watching them when I go to the sites, but thats as far as it goes. My woman is my everything....esp when role playing..woot...Im done...

FYI: I'm not judging anyone, to each his own. Rich or poor, it's still fking without a care in the word. I'm sure a great majority of people enjoy sex minus those with issues. I'm not saying I dont enjoy sex, I just try to keep it monogomous. Althought that's not 100% either. There are diseases to be caught, even with condoms, I love my life.

btnhmami9803 wrote:

Jurmz wrote:

btnhmami9803 wrote:

Jurmz wrote:Jump-Off?!? We call'em bust downs or runna's over south in chicago..lol. What makes them so different from swingers, or porno stars?

It's all the same shit, whore fking without a care in the world.

I agree to a certain extent, but who are we to judge them. Swinging is practiced commonly among some of the wealthy. Some men and women just enjoy sex. I once had a serious convo with a "bustdown". I asked her why she was like that...she said, they use condoms so Im safe. I just enjoy sex. Sex was originally used for reproduction, but someone decided to pull out and thats how we know sex as it is today...lol. Personally I find the whole thing amusing. I dont touch'em, I enjoy watching them when I go to the sites, but thats as far as it goes. My woman is my everything....esp when role playing..woot...Im done...

FYI: I'm not judging anyone, to each his own. Rich or poor, it's still fking without a care in the word. I'm sure a great majority of people enjoy sex minus those with issues. I'm not saying I dont enjoy sex, I just try to keep it monogomous. Althought that's not 100% either. There are diseases to be caught, even with condoms, I love my life.

OMG!! DONT FYI ME!!!

I wasnt meaning to offend anyone.. I was just speaking in general... ME LOVYU LONGTYME!!!

I'm not offended, but CLEARLY, I wasnt judging anyone. They can fuck their lives away and it wont effect me at all. I will still sleep well at night, knowing it aint my life. ; )

Jurmz wrote:Jump-Off?!? We call'em bust downs or runna's over south in chicago..lol. What makes them so different from swingers, or porno stars?

Im From da 100's Fam U know what it is !!!!!!! First Off Let me start By saying Safe sex or No Sex .... Now I don't have a J'o ,Bust down ,Runner Nor do i have a Nut Deflator !!! That's Uh New one Feel free 2 use It..Lol...There are some loyal Jump-off's that know how to play their position and there for they are kept around much longer...so I've heard.
Honesty is the most important part of the jump-off situation. Let it be known that "it is what it is". If a person is honest, all of that crazy emotional crap is cut and has no reason to surface. But some people have no control over their emotions and think that they can change a person's mind. A real man will never leave his family and home for some good ass. at least I won't!!!Dammm That felt like a Dr Phil Moment ...

Ok, so what about the situations where they have it clear it's strickly sex, and they end up catching feelings? b/c that happens? Now the whole situation is just a big mess.
Secondly, you sad a real man wouldnt never leave his family, etc, but if he has a JO thats bad enough b/c he's putting his wife at risk first and foremost.
To me the whole situation is degrading and sick, but some females don't mind being degraded or whatever. Sad situation.

Sofuckingchi wrote: Im From da 100\'s Fam U know what it is !!!!!!! First Off Let me start By saying Safe sex or No Sex .... Now I don\'t have a J\'o ,Bust down ,Runner Nor do i have a Nut Deflator !!! That\'s Uh New one Feel free 2 use It..Lol...There are some loyal Jump-off\'s that know how to play their position and there for they are kept around much longer...so I\'ve heard.

LMFAO @ NUT DEFLATOR

btnhmami9803 wrote:Ok, so what about the situations where they have it clear it's strickly sex, and they end up catching feelings? b/c that happens? Now the whole situation is just a big mess.
Secondly, you sad a real man wouldnt never leave his family, etc, but if he has a JO thats bad enough b/c he's putting his wife at risk first and foremost.
To me the whole situation is degrading and sick, but some females don't mind being degraded or whatever. Sad situation.

AGREED!!!!!

Sofuckingchi wrote:

Jurmz wrote:Jump-Off?!? We call'em bust downs or runna's over south in chicago..lol. What makes them so different from swingers, or porno stars?

Im From da 100's Fam U know what it is !!!!!!! First Off Let me start By saying Safe sex or No Sex .... Now I don't have a J'o ,Bust down ,Runner Nor do i have a Nut Deflator !!! That's Uh New one Feel free 2 use It..Lol...There are some loyal Jump-off's that know how to play their position and there for they are kept around much longer...so I've heard.
Honesty is the most important part of the jump-off situation. Let it be known that "it is what it is". If a person is honest, all of that crazy emotional crap is cut and has no reason to surface. But some people have no control over their emotions and think that they can change a person's mind. A real man will never leave his family and home for some good ass. at least I won't!!!Dammm That felt like a Dr Phil Moment ...

Wild Wild!!! U damn right..I know what it is..ya'll crazy out there lol...Im in Englewood. I honestly believe its impossible to have sex with no emotional attachment unless you're a pornstar. Even B'Ds got mains...lol. My rule has always been to make sure my woman is nasty as a B'D and keep it lady like and professional at the same time. A man wont leave for another woman if she's the shit in bed. Real talk...lol

btnhmami9803 wrote:Ok, so what about the situations where they have it clear it's strickly sex, and they end up catching feelings? b/c that happens? Now the whole situation is just a big mess.
Secondly, you sad a real man wouldnt never leave his family, etc, but if he has a JO thats bad enough b/c he's putting his wife at risk first and foremost.
To me the whole situation is degrading and sick, but some females don't mind being degraded or whatever. Sad situation.

I agree. Oprah is bringing the heat today!!!

Jurmz wrote:

Sofuckingchi wrote:

Jurmz wrote:Jump-Off?!? We call'em bust downs or runna's over south in chicago..lol. What makes them so different from swingers, or porno stars?

Im From da 100's Fam U know what it is !!!!!!! First Off Let me start By saying Safe sex or No Sex .... Now I don't have a J'o ,Bust down ,Runner Nor do i have a Nut Deflator !!! That's Uh New one Feel free 2 use It..Lol...There are some loyal Jump-off's that know how to play their position and there for they are kept around much longer...so I've heard.
Honesty is the most important part of the jump-off situation. Let it be known that "it is what it is". If a person is honest, all of that crazy emotional crap is cut and has no reason to surface. But some people have no control over their emotions and think that they can change a person's mind. A real man will never leave his family and home for some good ass. at least I won't!!!Dammm That felt like a Dr Phil Moment ...

Wild Wild!!! U damn right..I know what it is..ya'll crazy out there lol...Im in Englewood. I honestly believe its impossible to have sex with no emotional attachment unless you're a pornstar. Even B'Ds got mains...lol. My rule has always been to make sure my woman is nasty as a B'D and keep it lady like and professional at the same time. A man wont leave for another woman if she's the shit in bed. Real talk...lol

Then that goes back to the whole thing about weather or not you could marry someone whose sex is wack. : /

Jurmz wrote:

btnhmami9803 wrote:Ok, so what about the situations where they have it clear it's strickly sex, and they end up catching feelings? b/c that happens? Now the whole situation is just a big mess.
Secondly, you sad a real man wouldnt never leave his family, etc, but if he has a JO thats bad enough b/c he's putting his wife at risk first and foremost.
To me the whole situation is degrading and sick, but some females don't mind being degraded or whatever. Sad situation.

I agree. Oprah is bringing the heat today!!!

Oh, so I'm Oprah now? lol

btnhmami9803 wrote:

Jurmz wrote:

btnhmami9803 wrote:Ok, so what about the situations where they have it clear it's strickly sex, and they end up catching feelings? b/c that happens? Now the whole situation is just a big mess.
Secondly, you sad a real man wouldnt never leave his family, etc, but if he has a JO thats bad enough b/c he's putting his wife at risk first and foremost.
To me the whole situation is degrading and sick, but some females don't mind being degraded or whatever. Sad situation.

I agree. Oprah is bringing the heat today!!!

Oh, so I'm Oprah now? lol

Well, besides marie..who hardly ever posts...who else stands up for the women with such strong demeanor. I applaud you for being one of the "Good One's" and not going to the darkside where most of them go..lol

hardly ever post??? i have more post than anyone on this site andre...GTFO!!!!

Jurmz wrote:

btnhmami9803 wrote:

Jurmz wrote:

btnhmami9803 wrote:Ok, so what about the situations where they have it clear it's strickly sex, and they end up catching feelings? b/c that happens? Now the whole situation is just a big mess.
Secondly, you sad a real man wouldnt never leave his family, etc, but if he has a JO thats bad enough b/c he's putting his wife at risk first and foremost.
To me the whole situation is degrading and sick, but some females don't mind being degraded or whatever. Sad situation.

I agree. Oprah is bringing the heat today!!!

Oh, so I'm Oprah now? lol

Well, besides marie..who hardly ever posts...who else stands up for the women with such strong demeanor. I applaud you for being one of the "Good One's" and not going to the darkside where most of them go..lol

Lol. I guess. We are kinda out numbered. And what exactly is the darkside? lol && who is "them" let's not start clumping people in categories now b/c most is a strong word.

LOL....damnit shannnn-eeee...go vote for the poem of the month!!

ok.